Speed dating multiple matches
As that number continues to climb, it is likely that Cool Logicians will increase as a percentage of the total.
Online dating does make it easier to meet more people and maintain several dating relationships at once.
I’ll call them – Cool Logicians and Heartfelt Believers. They have read the experts and considered the research. Cool Logicians are also aware that dating more than one person at a time can raise your perceived value.
They know that meeting a great person often means you have to meet lots of people. It can make you seem more in demand and like a “catch.” Of course, it can also make you seem like a low-down dirty dog.
Never considers another match and ventures forward dating this one person. He falls in love with the next, first match and the cycle repeats. Because there’s something deep in him that feels wrong when date multiple people. He just wants love with one person, why should he have to juggle 3 or 4 women and deal with a complicated set of feelings for each?
This article is the first in a series that looks at the differences in dating in Britain and The United States.
Tell all their friends and family they want to meet someone new 2.
Get set up intermittently by aforementioned friends and family, with mixed results 3.
My very unscientific survey tells me they make up about 20% of the UK dating population. They decide which parties they go to based on the number of single people there, they choose their friends based on whether they’ll help them open up their single network and they join clubs and classes in order to meet more single people.
They know what they want – they often have a very specific idea of the person they want to meet in mind – and they’re going out to get it.